A pet is one of the most loyal and loving additions you can make to your household but, at times, they can get stressed when you leave. Check out the signs, symptoms and possible remedies for a pet with separation-related behaviour.

Signs of separation-related behaviour

Both cats and dogs can be highly social. They are naturally drawn to the company of people and other animals (even if cats might not act like it sometimes!).

Because of this, if they are left completely alone for long periods, they may become stressed.

Signs to look out for include:

  • Sleep changes. Your pet might seem restless or not sleep in their normal spot.
  • Becoming more clingy – or avoiding you completely. Social changes are a sign that something’s not right.
  • Change in posture. In both cats and dogs this has various meanings but it can mean they’re feeling stressed.
  • Urinating or defecating in inappropriate places. If your pet is toilet trained, this could be a sign of stress or a reaction to change. Be careful not to punish them as it could make things worse.
  • Cats especially will hide if they are feeling scared or stressed.
  • Weight changes. Always talk to your vet if your pet’s weight goes up or down significantly.
  • Overgrooming or excessive licking. This can lead to bald spots or a bald-looking tail.
  • Excessive vocalisation, including barking or meowing a lot.

How to help a pet with separation related distress

There are many ways to support your pet if you find they’re showing signs of separation related distress. If your pet is constantly stressed, speak to your vet. Supplements such as Zylkene® can help to calm them.

Firstly, creating a calm yet entertaining space. Make sure your pet has lots of toys and other fun enrichment to keep them distracted while you’re out. Also give them a comfy place to seek refuge, such as a bed or hideout, and plenty of access to fresh water.

Secondly, make sure they know you’re coming back! Routine helps them to know and expect this. Try to keep a consistent schedule wherever possible and your pet will come to know you will be back around a certain time, take them for a walk and feed them. This routine, combined with the regular exercise or walks, can reduce stress significantly.

Finally, try playing music or keeping the TV on while you are out. This can take away the silence of the house and help your pet to feel less vigilant about every noise.

If you’re concerned about changes in your pet’s mood, help is available

Often the mood of your pet will relate to the circumstances around them and the behaviour related to the mood will pass quickly. If you find your pet is showing signs of worry, stress or aggression and a pattern of behaviour is forming, it might be time to speak to your vet.

Supplements, such as Zylkene®, can help pets showing signs of separation-related behaviour to manage their symptoms.

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